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Bogaert, Anthony F., and Stan Sadava. Adult attachment and sexual behavior. Personal Relationships, 2002, vol. 9, pp. 191–204. Автор отмечает, что надежные партнеры чувствуют себя более уверенными в постели: они убеждены, что качество секса зависит главным образом от них, а не от ситуации.

Brennan, Kelly A., and Phillip R. Shaver. Dimensions of adult attachment, affect regulation, and romantic relationship functioning. Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin, 1995, vol. 21, pp. 267–283. Авторы отмечают, что люди с надежным типом привязанности предпочитают секс в серьезных отношениях и рассматривают его как еще один способ выражения любви.

Brotto, Lori A. The DSM diagnostic criteria for hypoactive sexual desire disorder in women. Archives of Sexual Behavior, 2010, vol. 39, pp. 221–239. О том, что физическая готовность к сексу, например прилив крови к гениталиям, часто не является признаком сексуального желания у женщин.

Castleman, Michael. Desire in women: Does it lead to sex? Or result from it? Psychology Today online, 2009. Available at http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/all-about-sex/200907/desire-in-women-does-itlead-sex-or-result-it.

Davis, Deborah, Phillip R. Shaver, and Michael L. Vernon. Attachment style and subjective motivations for sex. Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin, 2004, vol. 30, pp. 1076–1090.

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Gillath, Omri, and Melanie Canterbury. Neural correlates of exposure to subliminal and supraliminal sex cues. Social Cognitive and Affective Neuroscience, 2012, vol. 7, pp. 924–936.

Gillath, Omri, Mario Mikulincer, Gurit E. Birnbaum, and Phillip R. Shaver. When sex primes love: Subliminal sexual priming motivates relationship goal pursuit. Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin, 2008, vol. 34, pp. 1057–1069.

Harding, Anne. Rosemary Basson: Working to normalize women’s sexual reality. The Lancet, 2007, vol. 369, p. 363.

Hill, Craig A., and Leslie K. Preston. Individual differences in the experience of sexual motivation: Theory and measurement of dispositional sexual motives. Journal of Sex Research, 1996, vol. 33, pp. 27–45.

Hurlemann, René, et al. Oxytocin modulates social distance between males and females. The Journal of Neuroscience, 2012, vol. 32, pp. 16074–16079.

Impett, Emily A., Amie M. Gordon, and Amy Strachman. Attachment and daily sex goals: A study of dating couples. Personal Relationships, 2008, vol. 15, pp. 375–390. Описывается сексуальное поведение людей с разным типом привязанности: тревожные типы соглашаются вступить в интимную связь против собственного желания, потому что этого хочет партнер; избегающие типы – чтобы избежать конфликта и не проявлять свои чувства каким-то иным способом.

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Johnson, Susan M. Hold Me Tight: Seven Conversations for a Lifetime of Love. Little, Brown, 2008. Первое описание секса как самоцели, как утешения и как единения с точки зрения различной мотивации и типа эмоциональной привязанности человека.

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Laumann, Edward O., John H. Gagnon, Robert T. Michael, and Stuart Michaels. The Social Organization of Sexuality: Sexual practices in the United States. University of Chicago Press, 1994. Согласно проведенному авторами исследованию, 11 % женщин и 24 % мужчин в США, находясь в браке, имеют сексуальные связи на стороне.

Laumann, Edward O., and Robert T. Michael. Sex, Love, and Health in America: Private choices and public policies. University of Chicago Press, 2001.

Laumann, Edward O., Anthony Paik, and Raymond C. Rosen. Sexual dysfunction in the United States: Prevalence and predictors. Journal of the American Medical Association, 1999, vol. 281, pp. 537–544.

Maltz, Wendy, and Larry Maltz. The Porn Trap: The essential guide to overcoming problems caused by pornography. HarperCollins, 2008.

Marcus, I. David. Men who are not in control of their sexual behavior. In Handbook of Clinical Sexuality for Mental Health Professionals, S. Levine, C. Risen, and S. Althof, editors, pp. 383–400. Brunner/ Routledge, 2003. В статье приводится статистика сексуальной зависимости, которой страдают от 6 до 8 % мужчин.

Masters, William H., and Virginia E. Johnson. Human Sexual Response. Bantam, 1966. Human Sexual Inadequacy. Little, Brown, 1970. В книге обобщен опыт первых лабораторных исследований анатомии и физиологии сексуальных реакций человека и выделяются четыре из них: возбуждение, плато, оргазм, разрешение.

McCarthy, Barry, and Emily McCarthy. Rekindling Desire. Brunner/Routledge, 2003. McCarthy, Barry W., and Michael E. Metz. Men’s Sexual Health: Fitness for satisfying sex. Routledge, 2007. Meston, Cindy M., and David M. Buss. Why humans have sex. Archives of Sexual Behaviour, 2007, vol. 36, pp. 477–507.

Meyers, Laurie. The Eternal Question: Does love last? APA Monitor, 2007, vol. 38, pp. 44–47. Contains quotation by Elaine Hatfield. Michael, Robert T., John H. Gagnon, Edward O. Laumann, and Gina Kolata. Sex in America: A definitive survey. Little, Brown, 1994.

Tiefer, Leonore. Sexual behaviour and its medicalisation. British Medical Journal, 2002, vol. 325, p. 45. Взгляд на секс как на процесс пищеварения или танец двух близких людей.

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Часть третья. Любовь в действии
Глава 6. Любовь и время

AARP (formerly American Association of Retired Persons). The Divorce Experience: A study of divorce at midlife and beyond. Conducted for AARP The Magazine. AARP, 2004.

Atkinson, Leslie, Susan Goldberg, Vaishali Ravel, David Pederson, Diane Benoit, Greg Moran, Lori Poulton, Natalie Myhal, Michael Zwiers, Karin Gleason, and Eman Leung. On the relation between maternal state of mind and sensitivity in the prediction of infant attachment security. Developmental Psychology, 2005, vol. 41, pp. 42–53.

Beckes, Lane, Jeffry A. Simpson, and Alyssa Erickson. Of snakes and succor: Learning secure attachment associations with novel faces via negative stimulus pairings. Psychological Science, 2010, vol. 21, pp. 721–728.

Brown, Susan, and Lin I-Fen. Divorce in Middle and Later Life: New estimates from the 2008 American community survey. Bowling Green State University. О росте статистики разводов в зрелом и пожилом возрасте.

Cowan, Carolyn Pape, and Philip A. Cowan. When Partners Become Parents: The big life change for couples. Erlbaum Associates, 2000.

Eastwick, Paul W., and Eli J. Finkel. The attachment system in fledgling relationships: An activating role for attachment anxiety. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 2008, vol. 95, pp. 628–647.

Friedman, Howard S., and Leslie R. Martin. The Longevity Project: Surprising discoveries for health and long life from the landmark eight-decade study. Penguin, 2011.

Gottman, John M., and Julie Schwartz Gottman. And Baby Makes Three: The six-step plan for preserving marital intimacy and rekindling romance after baby arrives. Crown, 2007. О падении удовлетворенности браком на 75 % после рождения первого ребенка.

Hall, Scott S., and Rebecca A. Adams. Cognitive coping strategies of newlyweds adjusting to marriage. Marriage & Family Review, 2011, vol. 47, pp. 311–325.

Huston, Ted L., John P. Caughlin, Renate M. Houts, Shanna E. Smith, and Laura J. George. The connubial crucible: Newlywed years as predictors of marital delight, distress, and divorce. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 2001, vol. 80, pp. 237–252.

Mancini, Anthony D., and George A. Bonanno. Marital closeness, functional disability, and adjustment in late life. Psychology and Aging, 2006, vol. 21, pp. 600–610.

McLean, Linda M., Tara Walton, Gary Rodin, Mary J. Esplen, and Jennifer M. Jones. A couple-based intervention for patients and caregivers facing end-stage cancer: Outcomes of a randomized controlled trial. Psycho-Oncology, 2013, vol. 22, pp. 28–38.

Misri, Shaila, Xanthoula Kostaras, Don Fox, and Demetra Kostaras. The impact of partner support in the treatment of postpartum depression. The Canadian Journal of Psychiatry, 2000, vol. 45, pp. 554–558.

Ravel, Vaishali, Susan Goldberg, Leslie Atkinson, Diane Benoit, Natalie Myhal, Lori Poulton, and Michael Zwiers. Maternal attachment, infant responsiveness, and infant attachment. Infant Behavior and Development, 2001, vol. 24, p