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Об авторах
Всемирно известные исследователи и клинические психологи доктора Джон и Джули Готтман посвятили карьеру исследованию и укреплению здоровых, длительных отношений. Доктор Джон Готтман – почетный профессор психологии в Университете Вашингтона, где он основал «Лабораторию любви» и был назван одним из десяти самых влиятельных психотерапевтов за последнюю четверть века. Доктор Джули Шварц-Готтман, соавтор чрезвычайно популярного семинара «Искусство и наука любви», была названа психологом года штата Вашингтон и в 2021 году получила Премию за прижизненные достижения (2021 Lifetime Achievement Award) от Psychotherapy Networker.