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1. Richard Rohr, “Journey to the Center”, Center for Action and Contemplation, December 28, 2015, https://cac.org/journey-to-the-center-2015-12-28.
2. Я не богослов и не историк, но читала ученых, чьи труды охватывают временной промежуток в тысячи лет и которые очень подробно пишут на эти темы. Я постаралась кратко изложить некоторые из их идей, но, если вы хотите знать больше, вы можете открыть для себя очень много нового. Вы можете начать с одной из этих книг: Gustavo Gutiérrez and Gerhard Ludwig Müller, On the Side of the Poor: The Theology of Liberation (New York: Orbis Books, 2015); James Cone, A Black Theology of Liberation (New York: Orbis Books, 2010); Mitzi Smith, ed., I Found God in Me: A Womanist Biblical Hermeneutics Reader (Eugene, OR: Cascade Books, 2015); Wil Gafney, Womanist Midrash: A Reintroduction to the Women of the Torah and the Throne (Louisville: Westminster John Knox, 2017); or Rosemary Radford Reuther, Sexism and God-Talk: Toward a Feminist Theology (Boston: Beacon, 1993).
3. René Descartes, Meditations on First Philosophy, trans. J. Cottingham (Cambridge: Cambridge University Press, 1996); Plato, Alcibiades I, trans. Benjamin Jowett, https://www.gutenberg.org/files/1676/1676-h/1676-h.htm; Plato, The Republic, trans. Benjamin Jowett, https://www.gutenberg.org/files/1497/1497-h/1497-h.htm; and Lisa Isherwood and Elizabeth Stuart, Introducing Body Theology (Sheffield: Sheffield Academic Press, 1998).
4. Marcella Althaus-Reid, “Doing a Theology from Disappeared Bodies: Theology, Sexuality, and the Excluded Bodies of the Discourses of Latin American Liberation Theology”, in The Oxford Handbook of Feminist Theology, ed. Sheila Briggs and Mary McClintock Fulkerson (New York: Oxford University Press, 2011); and Isherwood and Stuart, Introducing Body Theology.
5. Mark Charles and Soong-Chan Rah, Unsettling Truths: The Ongoing, Dehumanizing Legacy of the Doctrine of Discovery (Downers Grove, IL: InterVarsity, 2019); Rosemary Radford Ruether, Feminist Theologies: Legacy and Prospect (Minneapolis: Fortress, 2007); Rosemary Radford Ruether, Gaia and God: An Ecofeminist Theology of Earth Healing (San Francisco: HarperSanFrancisco, 1992); Emily L. Silverman et al., Voices of Feminist Liberation: Writings in Celebration of Rosemary Radford Ruether (Bristol, CT: Equinox, 2012); and Marilú R. Salazar, “Experiences and Reflections on a Latin American Feminist Theology of Liberation Using an Ecofeminist Key Toward an Indigenous Women’s Perspective: Experiences and Reflections on a Latin American Feminist Theology of Liberation”, Ecumenical Review 62, no. 4 (2010): 411–22.
6. Diana Butler Bass, Grounded: Finding God in the World – A Spiritual Revolution (San Francisco: HarperOne, 2015), 13.
7. Bass, Grounded, 14.
8. Bass, Grounded, 25.
9. Bass, Grounded, 25.
10. Rabbi Arthur Waskow, “Why YAH/YHWH”, The Shalom Center, April 14, 2004, https://theshalomcenter.org/content/why-yahyhwh.
11. If you have ever taken a Kundalini yoga class, this also sounds a lot like the Breath of Fire.
12. Arthur Waskow, Prayer as if Earth Really Matters, ed. John Hart (Chichester, UK: Wiley & Sons, 2017), 389.
13. Stephanie Paulsell, Honoring the Body: Meditations on a Christian Practice (Minneapolis: Fortress, 2019), 6.
14. Paulsell, Honoring the Body, 7.
15. Isherwood and Stuart, Introducing Body Theology, 62.
16. Я сделала выводы по этим комментариям на основе: Dictionary of Paul and His Letters, ed. Gerald F. Hawthorne, Ralph P. Martin, and Daniel G. Reid (Downers Grove, IL: IVP Academic, 1993) – это также подтверждается работой Ишервуда и Стюарта в их книге «Введение в теологию тела».
17. Чтобы узнать больше о частях нас, я рекомендую ознакомиться с работой Ричарда Шварца и теорией внутренних семейных систем, из которой я впервые узнала о частях, которые мы все носим в себе. Вы можете попробовать начать со следующих книг: Schwartz, Greater Than the Sum of Our Parts: Discovering Your True Self through Internal Family Systems Therapy (audiobook, Sounds True, 2018), and No Bad Parts: Healing Trauma and Restoring Wholeness with the Internal Family Systems Model (audiobook, Sounds True, 2021).