87 American Academy of Pediatrics, policy statement, «Breastfeeding and the Use of Human Milk», Pediatrics 115 (2005): 496–506.
88 Sears and Sears, The Attachment Parenting Book, 6.
89 Thomas Lewis, Fari Amini, and Richard Lannon, A General Theory of Love (New York: Vintage, 2001), 194.
90 Donald Winnicott, The Child, the Family, and the Outside World, 2nd ed. (Perseus Publishing, 1992).
91 Sears and Sears, The Attachment Parenting Book, 4, 82.
92 Robert S. Marvin and Preston A. Britner, «Normative Development: The Ontogeny of Attachment», in Handbook of Attachment, 2nd ed., 276.
93 David Schwab (psychotherapist and EFT-trained family counselor), interview with author, Rochester, New York, June 8, 2014.
94 Sue Johnson, Hold Me Tight: Seven Conversations for a Lifetime of Love (New York: Little, Brown and Company, 2008), 84.
95 Там же, 6.
96 Там же, 3.
97 Там же, 47.
98 Там же, 15.
99 Там же, 253.
100 Там же, цит. Coan.
101 Там же, 24.
102 Там же, 30.
103 Там же, 254, 47.
104 Audrey Brassard and Susan M. Johnson, «Couple and Family Therapy: An Attachment Perspective», in Handbook of Attachment: Theory, Research, and Clinical Applications, 3rd ed., eds. Jude Cassidy and Phillip R. Shaver (New York: Guilford Press, 2016), 806.
105 Там же, 7.
106 Там же, 44.
107 Там же, 47–48.
108 Чтобы найти обученного ЭФТ терапевта рядом с вами, зайдите на сайт «Международного центра эмоционально-фокусированной терапии»: iceeft.com. Многие консультанты в списке работают с индивидуальными клиентами и будут использовать в работе с ними те же принципы теории привязанности. Сью Джонсон и коллеги недавно разработали вариант ЭФТ специально для индивидуальных клиентов (Прим. авт).
109 Susan M. Johnson et al., «Soothing the Threatened Brain: Leveraging Contact Comfort with Emotionally Focused Therapy», PLOS ONE 3, no. 8 (2013): e79314, accessed July 10, doi:10.1371/ journal.pone.0079314.
110 Sue Johnson, «Soothing the Threatened Brain», YouTube video, posted December 10, 2013, www.youtube.com/watch?v=2J6B00d-8lw.
111 Чтобы узнать больше о том, почему данная комбинация романтических партнеров проблематична, см. главу 5 (Прим. авт).
112 Отделение этих наиболее сложных случаев, как отмечают некоторые исследователи, помогает улучшить статистику успеха применения ЭФТ (Прим. авт).
113 Gurit Birnbaum, «Attachment and Sexual Mating: The Joint Operation of Separate Motivational Systems», in Handbook of Attachment, 3rd ed., 464–83.
114 Mario Mikulincer and Phillip R. Shaver, Attachment in Adulthood: Structure, Dynamics, and Change, 2nd ed. (New York: Guilford Press, 2016), 338.
115 Там же, 337–40.
116 Из соображений секретности она попросила не использовать ее фамилию (Прим. авт).
117 Mario Mikulincer and Phillip R. Shaver, Attachment in Adulthood: Structure, Dynamics, and Change, 2nd ed. (New York: Guilford Press, 2016), 54.
118 Mario Mikulincer et al., «Attachment, Caregiving, and Altruism: Boosting Attachment Security Increases Compassion and Helping», Journal of Personality and Social Psychology 89, no. 5 (2005): 817– 39.
119 Wyndol Furman, «Working Models of Friendship», Journal of Social and Personal Relationships 18, no. 5 (2001): 583–602.
120 L. Alan Sroufe, «The Place of Attachment in Development», in Handbook of Attachment, 3rd ed., 1004.
121 Mikulincer and Shaver, Attachment in Adulthood, 297.
122 Ofra Mayseless and Miri Scharf, «Adolescents’ Attachment Representations and Their Capacity for Intimacy in Close Relationships», Journal of Research on Adolescence 17, no. 1 (2007): 26.
123 Chong Man Chow and Cin Cin Tan, «Attachment and Commitment in Dyadic Friendships: Mediating Roles of Satisfaction, Quality of Alternatives, and Investment Size», Journal of Relationships Research 4, e4 (2013): 1–11.
124 Там же.
125 Vanessa M. Buote, Eileen Wood, and Michael Pratt, «Exploring Similarities and Differences Between Online and Offline Friendships: The Role of Attachment Style», Computers in Human Behavior 25 (2009): 560–67.
126 Yuthika U. Girme, et al., «‘All or Nothing’: Attachment Avoidance and the Curvilinear Effects of Partner Support», Journal of Personality and Social Psychology 108, no. 3 (2015): 450–75.
127 Там же, 452.
128 Там же, 471.
129 Гарри Рейс, личная коммуникация с автором, 2 марта 2017 года.
130 Juliann Hobdy et al., «The Role of Attachment Style in Coping with Job Loss and the Empty Nest in Adulthood», International Journal of Aging and Human Development 65, no. 4 (2007): 335–71, cited in Carol Magai, Maria Teresa Frías, and Phillip R. Shaver, «Attachment in Middle and Later Life», in Handbook of Attachment: Theory, Research, and Clinical Applications, 3rd ed., eds. Jude Cassidy and Phillip R. Shaver (New York: Guilford Press, 2016), 538.
131 Laura L. Carstensen, Derek M. Isaacowitz, Susan T. Charles, «Taking Time Seriously: A Theory of Socioemotional Selectivity», American Psychologist 54, no. 3 (1999): 165–81.
132 R. Niko Verdecias et al., «Attachment Styles and Sleep Measures in a Community-Based Sample of Older Adults», Sleep Medicine 10, no. 6 (2009): 664–67. See also Cheryl L. Carmichael and Harry T. Reis, «Attachment, Sleep Quality, and Depressed Affect», Health Psychology 24, no. 5 (2005): 526–31.
133 Mario Mikulincer and Phillip R. Shaver, Attachment in Adulthood: Structure, Dynamics, and Change, 2nd ed. (New York: Guilford Press, 2016), 248, 251.
134 Там же, 248.
135 Lynne C. Giles et al., «Effect of Social Networks on 10 Year Survival in Very Old Australians: The Australian Longitudinal Study of Aging», Journal of Epidemiology and Community Health 59 (2005): 574–79, cited in Magai, Frías, and Shaver, «Attachment in Middle and Later Life», in Handbook of Attachment, 3rd ed., 536.
136 Phillip R. Shaver and Mario Mikulincer, «Attachment in the Later Years: A Commentary», Attachment & Human Development 6, no. 4 (2004): 451–64.
137 Robert G. Maunder et al., «Physicians’ Difficulty with Emergency Department Patients Is Related to Patients’ Attachment Style», Social Science & Medicine 63, no. 2 (2006): 552–62.
138 Magai, Frías, and Shaver, «Attachment in Middle and Later Life», in Handbook of Attachment, 3rd ed., 545.
139 Там же.
140 Там же, 543.
141 Там же, 545–48.
142 Shaver and Mikulincer, «Attachment in the Later Years», 461.
143 Mikulincer and Shaver, Attachment in Adulthood, 2nd ed., 215.
144 Там же, 216.
145 Shaver and Mikulincer, «Attachment in the Later Years», 452.
146 Больше информации о связи религии и привязанности в главе 13 (Прим. авт).
147 Там же, 453.
148 Mario Mikulincer and Phillip R. Shaver, Attachment in Adulthood: Structure, Dynamics, and Change, 2nd ed. (New York: Guilford Press, 2016), 244.
149 Glenn I. Roisman, Mudita A. Bahadur, Harriet Oster, «Infant Attachment Security as a Discriminant Predictor of Career Development in Late Adolescence», Journal of Adolescent Research 15, no. 5 (2000): 531–45.
150 Mikulincer and Shaver, Attachment in Adulthood, 2nd ed., 241.
151 Там же, 240, 241.
152 Там же, 481.
153 Там же.
154 Там же, 244.
155 Там же.
156 Shiri Lavy, Tariv Bareli, and Tsachi Ein-Dor, «The Effects of Attachment Heterogeneity and Team Cohesion on Team Functioning», Small Group Research 46, no. 1 (2015): 35.
157 Mikulincer and Shaver, Attachment in Adulthood, 2nd ed., 245.
158 Hadassah Littman-Ovadia, Lior Oren, and Shiri Lavy, «Attachment and Autonomy in the Workplace: New Insights», Journal of Career Assessment 21, no. 4 (2013): 502–18. See also Patrice Wendling, «Attachment Styles Predict Workplace Behavior», Clinical Psychiatry News 38, no. 6 (June 2010): 10.
159 Lavy et al., «The Effects of Attachment Heterogeneity», 35.
160 Tsachi Ein-Dor, Mario Mikulincer, and Phillip R. Shaver, «Effective Reaction to Danger: Attachment Insecurities Predict Behavioral Reactions to an Experimentally Induced Threat Above and Beyond General Personality Traits», Social Psychological and Personality Science 2, no. 5 (2011): 467–73.
161 Tsachi Ein-Dor and Orgad Tal, «Scared Saviors: Evidence That People High in Attachment Anxiety Are More Effective in Alerting Others to Threat», European Journal of Social Psychology 42, no. 6 (2012): 667–71.
162 Tsachi Ein-Dor and Adi Perry, «Full House of Fears: Evidence That People High in Attachment Anxiety Are More Accurate in Detecting Deceit», Journal of Personality 82, no. 2 (2014): 83–92.
163 Lavy et al., «The Effects of Attachment Heterogeneity», 31–32.
164 Там же, 35.
165 Littman-Ovadia et al., «Attachment and Autonomy in the Workplace», 514.
166 «Obamas Celebrate Small Business Saturday with Shopping Trip», YouTube video, filmed November 2015, posted November 28, 2015, www.youtube.com/watch?v=Pj17MXg7XKw.
167 Kelly A. Forrest, «Attachment and Attention in Sport», в Journal of Clinical Sport Psychology 2, no. 3 (2008): 243.
168 Elliott Newell, e-mail message to the author, October 25, 2016.
169 Sam Carr, Attachment in Sport, Exercise and Wellness (London: Routledge, 2012), 107, quoting Rena L. Repetti, Shelley E. Taylor, and Teresa E. Seeman, «Risky Families: Family Social Environments and the Mental and Physical Health of Offspring», Psychological Bulletin 128, no. 2 (2002): 330–66.
17 °Carr, Attachment in Sport, 112, and Elaine Scharfe and Deborah Eldredge, «Associations Between Attachment Representations and Health Behaviors in Late Adolescence», Journal of Health Psychology 6, no. 3 (2001): 295–307.
171 Pamela Meredith, Jenny Strong, and Judith A. Feeney, «Adult Attachment, Anxiety, and Pain Self-Efficacy as Predictors of Pain Intensity and Disability», Pain 123, nos. 1–2 (2006): 146–54. См. также: Zoe Chrisman-Miller, «Exercise Habits, Adult Attachment Styles, and HPA-Axis Hypersensitivity» (undergraduate thesis, Oregon State University Honors College, Corvallis, 2015), ir.library.oregonstate.edu/xmlui/handle/1957/57896.