Темная сторона сексуальной революции. Переосмысление эпохи эротической свободы — страница notes из 41

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В разговорах о животных нет ничего оскорбительного. Все мы являемся животными, о чем иногда забываем только из-за своего высокомерия.

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Gianluca Mezzofiore, ‘No, that viral picture doesn’t show Hugh Hefner lighting a cigarette for Marilyn Monroe’, 28 сентября 2017, https://mashable.com/2017/09/28/marilyn-monroe-hugh-hefner-fake-picture-playboy/?europe=true.

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Jack Shepherd, ‘Hugh Hefner dead: Playboy founder is being buried next to Marilyn Monroe’, 28 сентября 2017, www.independent.co.uk/arts-entertainment/films/news.

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Jeff Gottlieb, ‘For sale: eternity with Marilyn Monroe’, 14 августа 2009, www.latimes.com/archives/la-xpm-2009-aug-14-me-marilyn14-story.html.

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Brad Witter, ‘Marilyn Monroe didn’t actually pose for the first issue of Playboy’, 8 сентября 2020, www.biography.com/news/marilyn-monroe-playboy-first-issue-didnt-pose.

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Scott Johnson, 4 октября 2017, www.hollywoodreporter.com/news/playboys-first-black-playmate-reflects-hugh-hefners-legacy-1045838.

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Witter, ‘Marilyn Monroe didn’t actually pose’.

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‘Hugh Hefner will be buried next to Marilyn Monroe’, 29 сентября 2017, www.telegraph.co.uk/films/2017/09/29/hugh-hefner-buried-next-marilyn-monroe-fans-not-happy/.

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Megan C. Hills, ‘How Hugh Hefner built an entire empire without Marilyn Monroe’s consent’, 29 сентября 2017, www.marieclaire.co.uk/news/celebrity-news/hugh-hefner-marilyn-monroe-541688.

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Corita Grudzen, Daniella Meeker, Jacqueline Torres et al., ‘Comparison of the mental health of female adult film performers and other young women in California’, Psychiatric Services 62 (2011): 639–45.

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Sam Kashner, ‘Marilyn and her monsters’, 5 октября 2010, www.vanityfair.com/culture/2010/11/marilyn-monroe-201011.

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Локация в особняке «Плейбоя» – искусственная пещера с джакузи и водопадом, где для гостей Хефнера устраивались романтические свидания. – Прим. пер.

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‘Hugh Hefner quotes’, 28 сентября 2017, https://heavy.com/entertainment/2017/09/hugh-hefner-quotes-on-life-death-playboy-is-alive-dead/.

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Olivia Bahou, 11 июня 2015, www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/news/a41845/worst-things-playmates-said-about-playboy-mansion/.

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Olivia Bahou, 11 июня 2015, www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/news/a41845/worst-things-playmates-said-about-playboy-mansion/.

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Sharon Waxman, 28 сентября 2017, www.thewrap.com/hugh-hefner-legacy-no-feminist-hero/.

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Graeme Culliford, ‘Sickening pimp secret’, 2 октября 2017, www.thesun.co.uk/news/4585472/brit-model-lured-girls-to-the-playboy-mansion-to-have-orgies-with-hugh-hefner/.

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Brooks Barnes, ‘The loin in winter’, 23 октября 2009, www.nytimes.com/2009/10/24/business/media/24hefner.html?pagewanted=2&sq=hefner&st=cse&scp=1.

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Emma Gray, ‘The contradictory feminist legacy of Playboy’s Hugh Hefner’, 29 сентября 2017, www.huffingtonpost.co.uk/entry/playboy-hugh-hefner-feminist-contradiction_n_59cd07c4e4b0210dfdfc822d?ri18n=true.

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Nalina Eggert, ‘Hugh Hefner death: was the Playboy revolution good for women?’, 28 сентября 2017, www.bbc.co.uk/news/world-us-canada-41426299.

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Решение Верховного суда США по делу «Роу против Уэйда» в январе 1973 года признало за женщинами конституционное право на аборт. – Прим. пер.

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Pascale Day, ‘Opinion’, 28 сентября 2017, https://metro.co.uk/2017/09/28/hugh-hefner-might-have-been-a-sleaze-but-playboy-helped-push-feminism-forwards-6963213/?ito=cbshare.

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Непереводимая на русский язык игра слов. Буквально «жили на площадях, а любили в треугольниках». «Square» – одновременно квадрат и площадь/сквер. Первая часть фразы отсылает к тому, что члены группы проживали близ площадей в центральной части Лондона, вторая – к образу их половой жизни, о чем пишет Перри. – Прим. пер.

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Patrick J. Deneen, июнь 2015, www.firstthings.com/article/2015/06/the-power-elite.

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См.: www.theguardian.com/film/2017/mar/05/emma-watson-vanity-fair-cover-feminism.

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За введение термина «сексуальное расколдовывание» нужно сказать спасибо Аарону Сибариуму. См. https://americancompass.org/the-commons/three-theses-about-cuties/.

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Jessica Valenti, ‘#MeToo is about more than stopping rape’, январь 2018, www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2018/jan/31/me-too-we-demand-more-jessica-valenti.

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Jessica Valenti and Jaclyn Friedman, Believe Me: How Trusting Women Can Change the World. New York: Basic Books.

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Susan Brownmiller, Against Our Will: Men, Women and Rape. New York: Simon & Schuster, 1975, p. 6 [Kindle locations 238–9].

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Jill Filipovic, 29 августа 2013, www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2013/aug/29/rape-about-power-not-sex.

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Cordelia Fine, Delusions of Gender. Cambridge: Icon, 2013, p. 198.

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Thornhill and Palmer, A Natural History of Rape, pp. 82–3.

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Sarah Blaffer Hrdy, Mother Nature: A History of Mothers, Infants, and Natural Selection. New York: Pantheon, 1999.

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Paul Gabrielsen, ‘Why males pack a powerful punch’, 5 февраля 2020, https://phys.org/news/2020-02-males-powerful.html.

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Sean Ingle, 3 марта 2019, https://www.theguardian.com/society/2019/mar/03/sports-stars-weigh-in-on-row-over-transgender-athletes.

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‘Google’s ideological echo chamber’.

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Порноместь – размещение в публично доступной сети материалов открыто сексуального характера без согласия изображенного в них лица. – Прим. пер.

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Jonathan Haidt, The Righteous Mind: Why Good People Are Divided by Politics and Religion. London: Allen Lane, 2012, pp. 170–6.

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В английском оригинале двусмысленность связана с пунктуацией: It Ain’t Half Hot, Mum («Здесь совсем не жарко, мама») / It Ain’t Half Hot Mum («Эта мамаша не очень горяча»). – Прим. пер.

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